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Communication - Dwell on the Positive!

Questions you need to ask yourself:

  • What does Philippians� 4:8 mean to you? 

  • When someone says something do you take it in a negative or a positive way? 

  • If you think someone has said something that you feel is hurtful, do you ask what the person to explain the statement or do you just get mad? 

  • When you self talk, are you using positive self talk or are you telling yourself things like �I am no good�, �I can�t win�, �that person is a looser�, �I hate that person�, � I hate my job� or are you using positive self talk like Philippians� 4:8? 

Philippians 4:8:  Finally Brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy -- think about such things.

 

~ The Bible has many examples of how we are to think. Paul tells us to take every thought captive. Why? Because if we don�t we often enter into wrong and destructive thought patterns. Don�t corrupt your mind. ~ If you are dwelling on the negative and putting yourself and other people down you are engaged in �Stinkin Thinkin�. This pattern of though is destructive and will make you and 
those around you miserable.
~ If you are experiencing problems in your marriage or relationships, ask yourself "what is 
my attitude" and �am is using wrong and destructive thinking?� Putting Philippians 4:8 
into practice will help improve your situation.
Choose your Attitude
Seek first to understand
How emotions impact your communication

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